How I Use Humor to Break the Ice During Shoots

Using Humor During Photo Sessions: How I Get Real Smiles Every Time

Let’s be honest—getting in front of a camera can feel awkward. Whether it’s a family session, a corporate headshot, or senior portraits, most people start out a little stiff, a little unsure, and very aware that there’s a lens pointed right at them.

That’s where humor comes in.

I’ve been a photographer for over 20 years, and if there’s one trick that works every time, it’s this: make people laugh. Not a fake “say cheese” laugh—but the real, unexpected kind that happens when someone says something totally random or just a little offbeat. That’s my specialty.

Lightening the Mood with a Quick Joke

The fun usually begins the moment we meet. For corporate sessions, I’ll often say something like, “Don’t worry — no awkward prom poses here!” For family sessions, especially with little ones, I might ask if they brought their superhero capes or if they’re ready to show off their best silly face. These playful, spontaneous comments help break the ice right away, easing any nerves and setting a relaxed, fun tone for the session.

 

For Kids (and the Grown-Ups Who Pretend to Be Serious)

With kids, humor is my superpower. Silly faces, goofy noises, or pretending like I totally don’t know how to count (“One…two…banana!”) gets them giggling every time. And once the kids are laughing, the parents relax too. It’s amazing how much more natural those moments become once everyone drops their guard.

 

For Corporate Shoots, It’s All About Comfort

Headshots can feel especially intimidating. Most professionals are thinking, “Do I look confident enough? Professional enough? Am I blinking too much?” My goal is to break that inner monologue. I’ll chat with them about their weekend, tell a quick (clean!) joke, or share a funny behind-the-scenes story. Before they even realize it, they’re smiling naturally—and I’ve already captured the shot.

Humor Builds Trust

The best images come from genuine connection. Using humor helps people trust me, and that trust shows in the photos. There’s nothing better than when someone says after the shoot, “That was actually kind of fun!”—especially when they came in nervous.

It’s Not Just About the Laughs

Humor isn’t just about making people laugh—it’s about creating a relaxed, enjoyable environment. When you feel good, you look good. And my goal? Always the same—create meaningful images that capture the real you. Sometimes that starts with a smile. Sometimes it starts with a laugh so hard your eyes crinkle. Either way, I’m here for it.

Want More Behind-the-Scenes Stories?

If you enjoyed this peek into how I use humor to bring out natural smiles and real connection during photo sessions, there’s more where that came from!

On my blog, I share tips for getting comfortable in front of the camera, real client stories, and ideas for making the most of your photoshoot experience—whether it’s a family and senior session, a professional headshot, or a branding shoot.

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